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Question by Profile Deleted: How do I save my marriage?
I believe in marriage as a one time event. I made a vow to my husband and God that I would stay with him through the good and the bad. But does the bad include him not trying? Lately my husband has been acting like he is single. He goes straight from work to hanging out with “the boys”. He drinks with them and plays video games and spends the night. The past week I have been home alone every day. Sometimes he texts me and says hes spending the night sometimes he just doesnt come home or text or anything. I dont think hes doing it on purpose to emotionally hurt me, I think he really just doesnt see anything wrong with this behavior. Tonight I asked him to stay home to save our marriage and he said no and left. Yesterday he had told me he wanted to go to the movies today with me, and the day before that he wanted to go to the movies for Valentines Day. But when his friends ask him to hang out they come first. I also asked him not to buy me chocolate for Valentines Day because I cannot have sugar because I have a condition that predisposes me to have diabetes. But he did anyway. He doesnt honor simple requests like dont step on my cream colored rug with your sneakers or dont use the decorative towels in the bathroom. I set up a marriage counseling appointment the other day and at the last minute he said he didnt want to go. I dont know what else to do. Am I wrong to think he is being a bad husband? Im just so heartbroken right now, I feel so unwanted. Please offer me any advice as I no longer know what to do
Thank you all for trying to help.
One person asked why people dont come here and why he doesnt play here. Good question! He is more than welcome to bring anyone over. He has an xbox360 and a Wii at the house. Theres plenty of food of snacks. He doesnt invite his friends over by choice.

About the “nagging”- the examples I mentioned (towel, carpet)- I only said to him one time. When I bought the towels I asked him not to use them and showed him which ones I didnt want him to use. BUT I also bought him 6 handtowels and put them in the drawer next to the sink and showed him that as well. The carpet I told him that once and didnt said anything when he repeatedly kept stepping on it. In regards to the chocolate, I did remind him that I cant eat sugar, but since he did buy them I told him I would eat one-two a day since I believe that amount of sugar is acceptable
Think I need to be more clear. I clean the house every single day. I do my best to make it look nice and cozy so that he will want to be here and want to bring people here. When he is home, he goes into his office to use his computer. I bring him anything he wants. He never cooks for himself and if he is hungry I make anything for him and bring it to him. I do his laundry and organize his clean clothes so that he can easily find what he needs to wear. I do not complain to him unless he comes up to me and specifically asks me what is wrong.
This behavior is very new. It began only a few weeks ago. Before things were great. I knew who he was hanging out with and I trusted him. Then he started being very possessive of his phone. He wouldnt let me use it and he always kept it on him. He started making excuses to always go out with people I didnt even know anymore (he is in the military and his friends were leaving tech school and there were new people a lot).

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Answer by stellar <3
“Tonight I asked him to stay home to save our marriage and he said no and left.”

There’s your answer right there.

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Question by Quinetta: what do you do when you are the only one trying to save your relationship ,and its hard to let go?
What i mean by that is you have been with this person for a good little while and instead of letting the the relationship fall apart you want to save it but the other person does not and you know it but by you loving this person its hard to let go.what should i do?

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Answer by ranchgirl
i’d say you can only give up. sorry to be a downer, but really…? you can’t change his mind.

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Question by ?Oh happy day! ?: Is it weird to save your first kiss until marriage?
I don’t want to kiss my bf until marriage. Not even just a peck. It’ll be special that way. And I won’t have wasted experiences with guys I date before the right one. The most I’ll do is hug a guy
the right guy isn’t gonna go anywhere because of my beliefs..if he’s the one he’ll respect that

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Answer by brockton
YOU are going to be one lonely, boring girl!

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Question by Sara D: HAs anyone actually had counseling save their marriage?
I hear about people going to counseling all the time and it not helping. HAs anyone had it help? WHat was the situation? Did it work? I just want to know that there might still be some hope for me.

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Answer by verdugo
Verdugo:
For me I personally don’t want to save my marriage for the problems that I have at home with my wife. When I think problems are irrational then I will just get out of my marriage if they were to continue. Why do I want to save a marriage that I know is only stupid problems. Is only the past. WOMEN IN GENERAL LEAVE THE F’N PAST IN THE PAST…. WHEN YOU FORGIVE THEN YOU FORGET. WOMEN DON’T DO THAT. AND DON’T KNOW HOW TO FORGET. I think that a smart man deserves a smart woman too. If you are not at the same level then you need to find some one that has those qualities. Do you know how much personal stuff is going to be said. Do you know how emberrasing will be for the two of you. Do you think is really worth it. Why do you wanna give it a try in the first place. I am not . personally. I hate some one else knowing my personal business and not going to do it just to make my spouse more wise. Not me.

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Co. A, 12th IND. Infantry
From History of Montgomery County, Kansas, By Its Own People, Published by L. Wallace Duncan, Iola, Kansas, 1903, Pg 645-646:

King, Joseph F. Bio

The “old soldier!” How shall we repay him, how measure the value of his services to his country? Shall it be in paltry dollars and cents? Far be it from us, the beneficiaries of their loyalty, to think that the mere pittance received as a pension, discharges the obligation owed to them! Let us, in the few brief years they are to be here, pour forth upon them, in addition, the benedictions of a grateful posterity. Stand with uncovered heads, as each year their lessening ranks file by, resolved that the glorious country which they saved with their blood, shall continue its benign mission of uplifting humanity to a higher plane of excellence. The biographer is always proud to record the few brief facts that tell of duty done in the dark days of the Rebellion, and, in Joseph King, of Caney township, is a subject which furnishes the necessary material.
Mr. King landed on Kansas soil in 1857, and was, thus, in the thick of the fervid battle for supremacy, then going on between the forces of the Free-State patriots and the Border Ruffians. When the war cloud actually burst, he was one of the first to enlist, first, in the Home Guards, and then, in a company commanded by Capt. J. B. Forman, which became part of the Tenth Kansas Infantry. After a year’s service in this organization, he received honorable discharge, and, immediately, returning to his old home in Indiana, reenlisted in Company A, of the Twelfth Indiana Volunteer Infantry. In this company he served during the remainder of the war, participating in many of the hard-fought battles and long wearisome marches of the Army of the Cumberland, and, later, with grand old “Uncle Billy,” to the sea. A partial list of the battles in which Mr. King had a part, follows: Richmond, Kentucky; Siege of Vicksburg, Jackson, Missionary Ridge, Resaca, Big Shanty, Big and Little Kennesaw, Atlanta, Jonesboro, Macon, Savannah, Columbus, Bentonville, Raleigh, together with numerous other skirmishes, not mentioned in the reports. At Richmond, Kentucky, Mr. King was unfortunate enough to get within the enemy’s line and was captured. He, however, was paroled on the fourth day. Again, at Atlanta, his zeal carried him too close to the enemy. His stay with the “Johnnie Rebs” was even shorter than before, as he was enabled, by he lax discipline of the guards, to make his escape, and to participate in that “glorious march to the sea.” His company had the distinction of being selected to lead the Grand Review at Washington, an honor which it richly deserved, and which its battle scarred members bore with distinguished credit.
A few brief facts concerning the family of Mr. King will not be amiss. He was born in Jennings county, Indiana, on the 17th of September 1842, a son of George W. and Nancy (Boyd) King. The parents were natives of Ohio and, in 1857 removed, with their family, to Anderson county, Kansas. Here, they lived out their days, as farmers, loyal to the free institutions of their adopted state, which the father served during the war, in the home guards, and in several different offices of trust. He died at the age of sixty-eight, the mother surviving him an dying at seventy-four years. They reared a family of twelve children, the four now living being: Joseph F., Elizabeth, William and Robert C. Those deceased are: James, David, Benjamin M., Emma, John, George, Lena and Cynthia.
Upon his return from the war, Mr. King was joined in marriage with Catherine F. Lewellin, the date being June 24, 1865. Mrs. King was a native of Jennings county, Indiana, born the 20th of November, 1844, the daughter of James and Sidney J. (Scroggins) Lewellin, who were from South Carolina, and early pioneers to Green county, Indiana.
The year of his marriage, Mr. King returned to Anderson county, Kansas, where he engaged in farming until 1883, when he bought his present farm of eighty acres in Caney township. It lies two miles south of the village of Havana, and shows the care of a practiced hand, in the many substantial improvements to be found thereon. Mr. King is a man of parts, in his township, having served as treasurer and clerk of the school board a number of times, and in various other positions of trust. In political belief he is a staunch Republican, and delights to promote the interest of that party. To him and his wife have been born a family of ten children, but four of whom are living: Nancy, wife of Fred Wolsch; Minnie, wife of David M. Spring; Joseph D. and Amos. Those deceased are: James, Mary, George, Etta J., and John A.
Mr. and Mrs. King and their son, Amos, comprise the family living at home, and all are regarded with much respect in the community.

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A bottle of white, a bottle of red
Perhaps a bottle of rose instead
We’ll get a table near the street
In our old familiar place
You and I-face to face

A bottle of red, a bottle of white
It all depends on your appetite
I’ll meet you any time you want
In our Italian Restaurant.

Things are okay with me these days
Got a good job, got a good office
Got a new wife, got a new life
And the family’s fine
We lost touch long ago
You lost weight I did not know
You could ever look so good after
So much time.

I remember those days hanging out
At the village green
Engineer boots, leather jackets
And tight blue jeans
Drop a dime in the box play the
Song about New Orleans
Cold beer, hot lights
My sweet romantic teenage nights

Brenda and Eddie were the
Popular steadies
And the king and the queen
Of the prom
Riding around with the car top
Down and the radio on
Nobody looked any finer
Or was more of a hit at the
Parkway Diner
We never knew we could want more
Than that out of life
Surely Brenda and Eddie would
Always know how to survive.

Brenda and Eddy were still going
Steaday in the summer of ’75
when they decided the marriage would
Be at the end of July
Everyone said they were crazy
"Brenda you know you’re much too lazy
Eddie could never afford to live that
Kind of life."
But there we were wavin’ Brenda and
Eddie goodbye.

They got an apartment with deep
Pile carpet
And a couple of paintings from Sears
A big waterbed that they bought
With the bread
They had saved for a couple
Of years
They started to fight when the
Money got tight
And they just didn’t count on
The tears.

They lived for a while in a
Very nice style
But it’s always the same in the end
They got a divorce as a matter
Of course
And they parted the closest
Of friends
Then the king and the queen went
Back to the green
But you can never go back
There again.

Brenda and Eddie had had it
Already by the summer of ’75
Fromhe high to the low to
The end of the show
For the rest of their lives
They couldn’t go back to
The greasers
The best they could do was
Pick up the pieces
We always knew they would both
Find a way to get by
That’s all I heard about
Brenda nd Eddie
Can’t tell you more than I
Told you already
And here we are wavin’ Brenda
And Eddie goodbye.

A bottle of red, a bottle of white
Whatever kind of mood you’re in tonight
I’ll meet you anytime you want
In our Italian Restaurant.

Scenes From An Italian Restaurant By Billy Joel

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